I'll get to the proper post about Booran Reserve with photos in time and I don't want it to be spoilt by this.
We were in Booran Reserve and a woman and her young say four years old son were nearby. There was a bed of flowers I did not recognise, flowering late autumn but looked like a spring bulb flower, with the classic shape of a hyacinth.
Blatantly she picked say eight blooms by the stems of the flowers. The son picked one. She had finished with her theft and they were about to leave when the child whined Mummy, I only have one flower. He proceeded to wrench blooms from the plants and not carefully pick them as she stood watching.
We were about three metres away and we stood stock still staring at them for perhaps a minute as the child went about his picking. The woman had to be aware of us two older men close by staring at them with no one else around.
My mind was going psycho. I started to open my mouth but nothing came out and I had a great awareness of R standing next to me and I knew he would not be pleased if I said anything. Can I call police or the local council? Of course not. Don't forget the serious stuff in life like the Russian madman. I was full of anger at this fucking bitch stealing public property grown for the pleasure of the reserve visitors. Only a few flowers. But what if everyone had her attitude?
I didn't argue later with R at the tram stop when he said he too was angry but it wasn't our business.
No, it is our business and I wish I gone full on aggressive towards her. As a ticket inspector turned to me and told me once when he was waking a sleeping drunk on a tram, you go in hard and aggressively initially and later you can be nice. They need to know you won't take s***. I also once observed a very effeminate gay acquaintance start with being so rude to cafe server and then later charmed the socks off them.
I don't think like that and it is not how I treat people but maybe I should speak out a bit more in life.
Perhaps I should have used some cutting wit but I am too slow. A bit of suburb snobbism? "Welcome to Glen Huntly and thanks for coming so far on a bus, train and tram to admire our flowers." It is rather hard to believe that a local resident would so brazenly do this.
Or, sotto voice to R, "Where did she get those awful shoes and that cheap and nasty hair dye. Glen Huntly is not what it used to be".
So, what would you have done? I really regret not challenging her some manner.