Mother cancelled R's take her out Thursday. She was too unwell and the weather was to be hot. She asked if we could come Sunday. I agreed and said yes, yet I am so behind on things. It will be my one day off after five days of work, and another four to work before my next day off. My next day off falls on a Thursday, but it will be hot and there is no way a Mother Day will happen. I need some time at home.
I am going to have to ask ABI Brother to take a walk with me, perhaps into his back yard and ask if Mother living at at his place is a problem for him? We already know it is but not sure to what extent.
Depending on his reply but regardless really, at some point in the near future we will have to have sibling solidarity and force Mother into a care place.
It is a conversation you really don't want to have with your mother, but as oldest son, I must.