While I have a couple of murals up my sleeve, I am not in the mood.
Indulge me, if you will and some of this needs to on the record of the online diary.
Christmas Day at Tradie Brother's was great. The whole family was there at various times with the exception of Oldest Niece, her partner and their three children who had his family to see. Gifts were lavished on the children, far too many and of course we contributed to the avalanche. It was great but exhausting. Bone Doctor changed Mother's leg wound dressing.
Repeat and rinse at a different location on Boxing Day, this time at Ex Sis in Laws, her husband and Hippie Niece and her twin cafe latte girls. Golly they are going to be stunners when they grow up. Absent was Sister, Bone Doctor and Jo. More of an avalanche of gifts for the children. Great fun for the kiddies on a downhill plastic water slide, and fun by some not so young on the same.
The day after Boxing Day Mother took 'a turn' and summonsed an ambulance and told the paramedics she wanted to go to a public hospital this time. They obliged and she received excellent treatment and care at a very busy emergency department, but was eventually transferred to a private hospital covered by her health insurance, which we of her children pay. But as her house is sold, that won't be for much longer.
She has remained in hospital since, even they wanted her out for New Year's Day. She will soon turn 87 and wants to feel like she is 45. It won't happen but her medications have been drastically altered.
Both Christmas Day and Boxing Day we were caught in heavy stop start freeway traffic. Christmas Day was expected but not Boxing Day. I must remember to be careful what I wish for. Empty roads did happen last year at the extremes of our lockdowns.
New Year's Eve was spent at home. R went to bed at 10.30. I fell asleep in the chair in front of the (I just checked yesterday) 75", 191cm tv. Illegal fireworks woke me a bit after midnight and I went to bed.
Fresh faced and rosy cheeked on New Year's Day, we decided to lunch down the bay somewhere. Mordialloc I suggested? Ricketts Point? I showered and in the mean time R remembered near there is where the COVID outbreak happened. Fortuitously Ex Sis in Law rang wondering if we were free for lunch and so we joined her and her husband at Sandbar Cafe, Middle Park Beach. Chilli mussels were yum.
Saturday the 2nd we went to visit Mother in hospital, visiting hours 10.00 to 12.00 and 16.00 to 18.00, two visitors per day, only to be turned away because of COVID the hours had been changed that morning to 17.00 to 18.00. No problem. Only three hours out of our day wasted. Household management went on strike that night and not a meal to be seen, so we crossed the road in the rain and had a very nice meal at Giro d'italia. It was our first time visit and it was good. We ordered too much food and so have a large box of food in the fridge to eat another time.
Today on my own I visited Mother in hospital. Traffic light until a car accident had five lanes of freeway traffic cramming into one lane. Three lane closure would have been enough for a nose to tail. I must have felt stressed as I left my phone in the car as I walked from where I had parked and how can I make a hospital COVID check in without scanning the QR code? Maybe you can sign a book or something but I went back to the car for my phone. There was now only a thirty minute visiting window, which was quite enough of hearing Mother's woes. I left for home just after six, expecting a 30 minute journey home.
It is not often I explode in the car but I did when the freeway was restricted to 40 km/h with five lanes merging into two lanes for road maintenance. After what I put up with going to the hospital, this is how you treat me on my way home, you effing aholes. Totally illogical, of course.
Not my doctor, not my cardiologist, not hospital cardiologists but a hospital pharmacologist worked out there was conflict with one of my heart medications and my anti tremor medication, so I had to stop the tremor medication. It took well over a week for it to be noticeable that my hands were increasingly unsteady. I arrived home from the hospital and poured myself a glass of wine before a late dinner. I had to hold it with two hands lest I spill it. I was back in the pre retirement days of stressful work and an even more stressful drive home. There is a newer medication I may be able to take. I'm going to follow this up next week.
Ok, I do have a mural photo, nothing grand and on the wall of Victoria University in Napier Street, Footscray.