While Oldest Niece is engaged to her partner of ten years, I doubt she will change her name when and if they marry. Their children have his surname. Nephew's wife didn't change hers when they married. Ex Sis in Law did when she remarried, perhaps because she wanted to be rid of her former married name, my surname. Little Jo got both surnames of her mothers as a surname. It was supposed to be hyphen free, but I see a hyphen has been appearing of late.
Speaking of surnames, Hels' post on surnames was quite interesting. Extra interesting to see my surname in the post.
But here you go. You female readers, older or younger, would you now change your name and of course you are of the age when you first married? That's confusing. In 2018 society you are the age when you married.
The poll is anonymous but you can confess and rant in comments. Perhaps you still have the name of your former husband who you are not great friends with or even detest?
I am not sure if this poll will work, so if the post disappears, don't worry. I will try again.