I am not talking about who you may wish to spend the rest of your life with, I am talking about base (I need one of French symbols over the a there) sexual attraction. How does that work then?
Aren't we all attracted to a nice looking face? For mine, it is dark and smouldering Latin looks. But Latin looks come with hairy bodies, and I prefer smooth bodies, like a Asian body but then I like black men too and they can vary from hairy to smooth. Why are red heads always so good at the biz? Ok, it could be summarised as I like men, in all their variations.
In spite of my partner being older than I am, and he was when I was younger too, haha, he was once young and I find young men attractive, especially if they are a bit alternative. It is seldom I find older men attractive in a sexual way, but here is one who really turns me on.
He is a local comedian, a reformed heroin user who is still taking methadone. His voice sounds like that of an older man, no doubt honed by drugs, drinks, cigarettes and a wicked lifestyle. He identifies as being straight, but has 'walked on the wild side' once at least. He has been on tv in Underbelly as a prisoner who raped a young fellow prisoner and also in the past as a comedian.
At our dyke friend's insignificant birthday at a St Kilda hotel, out of the blue he bought her a beer because it was her birthday. She didn't have a clue who he was, but I knew and had to tell her who it was.
His name is Greg Fleet. One can have some fantasies, surely.