This is probably something I should send to Mother, but I am not sure if I will.
While we kids of yours understand your medical problems, I am concerned that you will taint the memories of your grandchildren.
You did wonderful things for Dreaded Newphew, Oldest Niece and Chainsaw Niece when they were kids. You and Late Step Father took them out to so many places on Sundays. You showed them a good bit of Victoria, its forests, beaches and attractions. You played the silly and so earned the title of Nanna Fudd. It is obvious to me that they love and respect you. They are grown up now and have their own lives.
Regardless, they have indelible memories of Nanna Fudd and Step Father.
Mum, please don't spoil the kiddies memories of you with your health complaints. We, your children and their partners, can wear it and it may only be for selfish reasons, but I want them to have only good memories of you. I don't want them to remember a Nanna who was always unwell and complaining. You can do that hey Mum?
Your loving son,