The absolute the last clearance post for today.
This is a queer thing. Gay.com chat rooms for Melbourne are dead. R uses gay.com but clearly for overseas chat. Gay.com would not work on this big computer and R complained even though it would work on his laptop. I did what I could and then sent an email to our isp. They offered advice, but I had already done all I could. Suddenly gay.com stated working again. I expect our isp bars it at times, and then realises that they have made a mistake and allows it to work again.
Gaydar seems to be the place to go now. I am well past chat on gay sites I can't cope with the sincerity. I do use the Recon network to communicate, rarely actually, with serious people.